Traditions

By Cindy Fertsch

Is Thanksgiving about football, turkey, cooking, or family reunions? Most of us would answer “all of the above.” Whether you cook, travel, play or watch football, what matters most is that we all take a moment to pause and give thanks for our blessings. When Bob and I consider what we’re thankful for, our loved ones are at the top of the list. Our 21-year-old twin daughters haven’t been home since August, and we’re so excited that we get to have all of our children under the same roof for a few days.

Our children, Sarah, Holly, Jamie on Thanksgiving 2001.
     Typically, our family spends the day after Thanksgiving decorating for Christmas.  We have a ridiculous amount of decorations, and setting them all up is a full day’s work.
     “I could wait and do it later if you want to do something else that day, ” I tell them. “Nope, it’s tradition,” they reply almost in unison.
     The funny thing about traditions is that we don’t usually create them on purpose. After a few years of doing something in a certain way or on a certain day, it becomes a meaningful part of who we are.
     All the cliches are true. The little ones grow up too fast and our traditions give us something special to cherish over the years. Traditions are simple  actions, routines, or rituals that bring us together time and time again.
     In addition to the reliable joy of tradition, life is also marked by the unexpected: some good and some tragic. They say if you want to make God laugh, just tell him your plans. Boy, is that true for me. I never imagined my life where it is or where it’s been. When we count our blessings, we must remember to include our most basic needs of food and shelter. It’s easy to take them for granted, but imagine how challenging everyday life would be without them. Many people in our communities find themselves in difficult circumstances, and when they do, they can turn to the Atlantic City Rescue Mission.  This issue’s Hometown Hero, Howard Hirsch, is the Director of Development at the Rescue Mission. Along with his staff and volunteers, he works tirelessly to provide three meals a day, safe shelter, and programming for those in need. The closure of many casinos has left Atlantic County reeling, and our area is still suffering with high foreclosure rates and levels of unemployment. The face of poverty has changed. Those impacted could be your neighbors, your coworkers, or your childrens’ friends’ family. It could be us. Consider making a donation, dropping off a turkey, or lending a hand this holiday season. There are many excellent organizations doing their best to meet the overwhelming need in our community. Here are just a few:
Atlantic City Rescue Mission
Community Food Bank of South Jersey 609-383 foodbankssj.org
Jewish Family Services
Jfsatlantic.org
 
Wishing you and your family a very Happy Thanksgiving filled with joy and blessings
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